In Part One of this series, Shelby Sapp made me think differently about sales.
In Part Two, Jasmine Star made me think about identity and the woman we have to become before we can build what we say we want.
Then Lori Greiner walked onto the Women & Wealth stage and brought the conversation somewhere much more tangible.
- The product.
- The customer.
- The pitch.
- The factory.
- The patent.
- The loan.
- The rejection.
- The team.
- The details.
- The work.
Lori kept returning to one sentence throughout her presentation:
One great idea can change your life.
And coming from someone who turned a jewelry organizer into the beginning of an international business, created and marketed more than 1,000 products, holds 120 U.S. and international patents, and became one of the best-known investors on Shark Tank, she has some evidence behind the statement.
But I left her presentation thinking there was actually a second sentence hiding underneath the first one.
One great idea can change your life. But an idea alone changes absolutely nothing.
Someone still has to build it.
That may have been my biggest takeaway from Lori Greiner.
Most people watching her today see the finished version.
- The television show.
- The investments.
- The successful products.
- The QVC career.
- The recognition.
Women & Wealth gave us the story underneath it.
And that story started with earrings.
The Million-Dollar Idea Arrived on a Massage Table
Lori was lying on a massage table while her friend Pam, who was learning massage therapy, practiced on her.
During the conversation, Pam mentioned that there really wasn't a good way to organize earrings.
Lori loved jewelry too.
And suddenly she could see the product.
An organizer where the earrings would hang visibly instead of disappearing into drawers and boxes.
That was it.
- No business-school case study.
- No innovation lab.
- No massive research team.
- No venture-capital brainstorm.
A woman noticed an annoying little problem in ordinary life.
And another woman thought:
I can solve that.
I loved that because entrepreneurship is sometimes presented as if we have to invent the next iPhone.
Lori's presentation kept bringing us back to something much simpler.
- Look at your life.
- What frustrates you?
- What takes too long?
- What is unnecessarily difficult?
- What do people complain about repeatedly?
- What are they already trying to solve badly?
- What do they wish existed?
That is often where businesses begin.
Not with: what billion-dollar company should I create?
But:
What problem keeps showing up that nobody has solved particularly well yet?
An Idea Became a Business Because She Moved
The part of Lori's origin story that interested me most was not actually the invention.
It was the speed between idea and execution.
She had the idea in July 1996.
Then she started figuring everything out.
- She incorporated a company.
- Found someone to make a prototype.
- Found a mold maker.
- Found a manufacturer.
- Worked on packaging.
- Worked on production.
- Started pitching retailers.
Remember, this was before we could sit in bed at 11:00 p.m. and Google:
- How do I manufacture an acrylic product?
- Best packaging company near me.
- How do I contact a retail buyer?
- How do patents work?
- How do I make a prototype?
She was using the Yellow Pages and giant printed retail directories to find companies and buyers.
And she had never gone to business school. She had never taken a business class.
She simply kept asking some variation of:
Who do I need to call next to figure this out?
That distinction matters.
Because there are people walking around with ideas they have been working on for three years that still have not reached a customer.
- The logo is being perfected.
- The Instagram username is being debated.
- The website is being redesigned.
- The business plan is on version 14.
- Another course needs to be taken.
- Another person needs to be consulted.
- Another month of research would make everyone feel more comfortable.
Meanwhile, Lori went from idea to product to retailer within months.
I do not think the lesson is that every company should move recklessly fast.
It is that movement creates information that thinking alone cannot give us.
You can spend six months wondering whether customers will buy something.
Or you can build the simplest credible version, put it in front of them, and start learning.
The market has a way of answering questions our notebooks cannot.
Then QVC Rejected Her
I appreciated that Lori did not tell the story as though every door immediately opened.
QVC initially rejected her.
Today, with Lori being so closely associated with television retail, that almost sounds impossible. But it happened.
So she went somewhere else.
- HSN gave her an opportunity.
- She sold out.
- She later went to QVC in London.
- Her success there eventually helped connect her back to QVC in the United States.
And the company that initially rejected her eventually gave her her own show.
That is one of those stories that sounds obvious after the ending is known.
Before the ending, rejection feels very different.
When someone important says no, it is easy to accidentally convert one statement into another:
They don't want it.
Nobody wants it.
Those are not the same statement.
- One buyer rejected you.
- One investor declined.
- One company passed.
- One customer was uninterested.
- One audience did not respond.
That is information. It is not necessarily a verdict.
Lori's response was essentially: fine, who else?
I think that is a useful entrepreneurial reflex.
Not blind persistence. Not assuming everyone else is stupid and you are always right. But being willing to separate one person's decision from the entire market.
- Sometimes a no means the product is wrong.
- Sometimes it means the price is wrong.
- Sometimes the pitch is wrong.
- Sometimes the timing is wrong.
- Sometimes you are talking to the wrong customer.
- And sometimes you simply need another door.
One Idea Does Not Need to Be Revolutionary
During the fireside chat, Lori was asked about one of the biggest myths surrounding million-dollar ideas.
Her answer was that people think the idea has to be revolutionary.
It does not.
That may sound almost too simple until you look at some of the products she used as examples.
- Scrub Daddy. A sponge.
- Squatty Potty. A bathroom stool.
- Simply Fit Board. A piece of molded plastic you stand on and twist.
- FlexScreen. A better window screen.
- Big Ass Luxuries. A large candle.
None of those descriptions sound like technological revolutions.
And yet collectively, products Lori has invested in through Shark Tank have generated billions in retail sales. Her official site currently says Scrub Daddy alone has generated more than $2.9 billion in sales since appearing on the show.
That completely changes the entrepreneurial question.
Maybe we are putting too much pressure on ourselves to invent something nobody has ever imagined.
Sometimes innovation is:
This already exists, but I can make it noticeably better.
- Faster.
- Simpler.
- Cleaner.
- Cheaper.
- More convenient.
- More attractive.
- More durable.
- Easier to understand.
- More accessible.
- Better distributed.
A tiny improvement multiplied across millions of customers can become a very large business.
Lori's Checklist for a Strong Product
One of the most practical parts of her presentation was the framework she uses when evaluating products. I turned it into six questions.
- 01Does it solve a real problem?
- 02Is it unique or meaningfully different?
- 03Does it have a broad audience?
- 04Is it affordable?
- 05Does it fill a gap in the market?
- 06Is it easy to understand?
1. Does it solve a real problem?
This came first for Lori. And I agree.
A product attached to an actual recurring problem has a built-in reason to exist. You are not trying to manufacture desire from nothing.
- Something hurts.
- Something annoys people.
- Something wastes time.
- Something costs money.
- Something is inconvenient.
And your product makes that situation better. That is a powerful starting point.
2. Is it unique or meaningfully different?
You do not necessarily need to create a brand-new category.
But there should be a reason to choose you.
If ten products already perform essentially the same function, look the same, cost the same, and are sold in the same places, your business becomes much harder.
Difference gives you something to communicate.
3. Does it have a broad audience?
Lori likes products that can potentially serve men, women, different ages, and different types of households. The broader the useful market, the larger the possible commercial opportunity.
That does not mean niche businesses are bad. A niche business can be extremely profitable.
But Lori is generally hunting for mass-market consumer products, so naturally she wants something capable of selling at enormous scale.
That distinction matters. The right market size depends on the business you are trying to build.
4. Is it affordable?
A wonderful product that your intended customer cannot reasonably buy has a problem.
Pricing affects how large the addressable market becomes and how much friction enters the buying decision. For mass consumer products, affordability can be a tremendous advantage.
5. Does it fill a gap in the market?
- What is missing?
- Why has the customer not already solved this?
- What can your product provide that current alternatives do not?
This is where observation becomes opportunity.
6. Is it easy to understand?
This one may be underrated.
If I need three minutes to understand what your product does, you have already made selling it harder.
If I can see it and immediately think, oh, that's useful, you have an advantage.
Scrub Daddy is almost a perfect example.
- You can demonstrate what changes in hot and cold water.
- You can show what it cleans.
- The customer understands the utility quickly.
A brilliant product that requires an economics lecture before someone understands why they need it has created an additional sales problem for itself.
The Product and the Pitch Have to Work Together
Lori talked repeatedly about preparation.
Not casually. Obsessively.
She said that even after giving hundreds of speeches, she still reviews her note cards before going on stage.
- Before appearing on television, she studies.
- Before pitching, she rehearses.
- She knows her top selling points.
- She prepares the demonstration.
- She pays attention to the smallest details.
Her first major television opportunity was an appearance on HSN.
She had taken approximately a $300,000 loan.
She had a few minutes on television to prove that people would buy.
She prepared everything.
- The organizer.
- The jewelry placed on it.
- The visual presentation.
- Her pitch.
- Her clothing.
- Even what she ate and drank beforehand so she would minimize the chance of anything going wrong.
Then she went on television.
She sold out in six minutes.
That is what people sometimes overlook when they talk about someone being naturally good at something.
We see the eight-minute performance.
We do not see the hours of preparation that made eight minutes look natural.
Preparation Creates Confidence Before Confidence Arrives Naturally
This connected beautifully with something Shelby talked about in Part One.
We often think confidence means walking into the room with absolutely no nerves.
Lori did not describe that. She described preparing enough that the nervousness does not control the outcome.
- You know the numbers.
- You know the material.
- You know the product.
- You know the three strongest benefits.
- You have practiced the questions.
- You have rehearsed the objections.
- You know the demonstration.
- You know what you are asking for.
So even when your heart is beating too fast, your preparation has somewhere to take you.
There is a form of confidence that comes from personality.
And there is another form of confidence that comes from knowing:
I have done the work required to be here.
I trust the second one more.
The First 30 Seconds Matter
Lori was asked what catches her attention quickly when an entrepreneur enters Shark Tank.
Her answer was essentially clarity, preparation, enthusiasm, and the entrepreneur herself.
Can you explain in a few sentences:
- What is it?
- How does it work?
- Why should I care?
And can you do that while making me believe that you care?
This sounds obvious. It is not.
Ask ten entrepreneurs what their company does and watch how quickly the answer becomes a paragraph filled with industry terminology.
A good pitch does not prove how complicated your business is.
It makes something complicated easy to understand.
The entrepreneur knows everything. The customer does not need everything.
The customer's brain is trying to answer:
- What is this?
- Is it for me?
- Why is it better?
- Why do I need it?
- Why should I trust you?
- How much does it cost?
The faster we help them answer those questions, the easier we make the buying decision.
Know Your Top Three Selling Points
I loved how specific Lori was about this.
Know the three things. Not twenty-seven. Three.
What are the three strongest reasons someone should buy? Then reinforce them.
This forces discipline because every founder thinks everything about her product is important. It is not.
- The customer probably does not care how difficult it was to create.
- She does not care how many late nights you worked.
- She may not care that you changed suppliers six times or spent eighteen months perfecting a feature.
She cares about what changes for her.
What are the strongest three reasons she should pay attention? That is your job to figure out.
Hire Character. Train Skill.
One of my favorite Lori Greiner lines from the entire presentation was:
Hire character. Train skill.
She argued that when building a team, she would rather have ethical, hardworking, dependable, can-do people whom she trusts than technically brilliant people with bad character.
Skills can often be taught.
Character is much harder to install after someone joins your company.
Lori told a story from the early days of manufacturing her products.
She worked directly alongside women in the factory.
She did not own the factory. They did not technically work for her.
But she treated them with respect and worked in the trenches beside them.
Eventually, those women cared enough about her success that when the factory was trying to make them pack products that did not meet the expected quality, they secretly called Lori to warn her.
Think about that.
Their loyalty was not purchased through an equity plan. It came from how she treated them.
Leadership was creating value when she was not even in the room.
That story stayed with me because founders can become obsessed with getting employees to care like owners.
Most never will. Why would they?
But there is an enormous difference between someone who merely works for you and someone who genuinely wants the company to succeed because she respects you, believes she is respected, understands the mission, and takes pride in what she does.
You cannot demand that. You build it.
Speak Up When Something Is Wrong
Lori told another story I loved.
Early in the business, she went to a highly regarded intellectual-property law firm because she needed help protecting her invention. Her husband came with her.
Lori asked the attorney a question. The attorney turned to her husband and answered him.
She asked another. Again, he answered the husband.
Instead of silently accepting it, Lori stopped the meeting. She told him the relationship was not going to work and asked for a female attorney from the firm.
That is how she met Natalie, the lawyer who eventually helped her obtain around 120 U.S. and international patents and became a longtime friend.
The story was funny when Lori told it. But underneath it was a serious lesson.
Sometimes we know very quickly that someone is not right for us.
- An employee.
- Advisor.
- Attorney.
- Vendor.
- Partner.
- Client.
We feel it. Then we spend six months trying to convince ourselves otherwise because ending the relationship feels uncomfortable.
Lori's advice was simple:
Speak up.
If the relationship is wrong, you are allowed to change it.
You do not have to create a war. You do not have to insult the person.
You can calmly say: this is not working for me.
That sentence can save an unbelievable amount of time.
Do Not Enter the Room Thinking You Are at a Deficit
One of the strongest women-specific messages in Lori's presentation came from her own experience frequently being the only woman among male investors.
She acknowledged something important.
Yes, women have historically faced different barriers in business. Yes, entering male-dominated environments can be intimidating.
But her advice was not to walk into the room mentally emphasizing the disadvantage. She said to think of yourself as a person in the room who is as good as, if not better than, anybody else there.
- Know your material.
- Know your abilities.
- Know your value.
- And focus on the objective.
Kindness and Power Are Not Opposites
During the fireside chat, Lori was asked how she balances being known as the Warm Blooded Shark with still being powerful.
Her answer was one of my favorite leadership lessons of the day.
Why would strength and kindness be mutually exclusive?
You can be brilliant, confident, firm, ambitious, and kind.
- You can have boundaries without humiliating people.
- You can say no without cruelty.
- You can demand excellence without treating people as disposable.
- You can negotiate hard without becoming disrespectful.
And Lori made a good point.
If two equally capable people are sitting in front of me and one is difficult, arrogant, and unpleasant while the other is strong, competent, dependable, and kind, who would I rather build with?
The answer is obvious.
Some women feel pressure to copy the hardest versions of male leadership because they think warmth will be interpreted as weakness. I think that is a mistake.
Kindness without boundaries can become people-pleasing.
Strength without humanity can become intimidation.
The combination is far more interesting.
You can be warm without becoming weak and powerful without becoming cruel.
The Can-Do Attitude
Lori repeatedly described herself as having a can-do mentality.
And when asked what makes her quickly lose confidence in an entrepreneur, she said the opposite: a can-don't attitude.
The person who responds to every possibility with:
- But...
- That won't work because...
- We can't because...
- We tried that...
- What if...
Lori wants people whose instinct is: let's figure out how.
I understand why.
Entrepreneurship is essentially an endless stream of problems arriving at inconvenient times.
- Supplier disappears.
- Customer complains.
- Payment processor freezes something.
- Employee quits.
- Shipment is late.
- Product breaks.
- Ad stops converting.
- Costs increase.
- Competitor appears.
- Regulation changes.
The founder's job cannot simply be describing why all of these things are unfortunate. Something has to happen next. That requires a problem-solving orientation.
Where I Disagree a Little: Entrepreneurship Does Not Have to Mean 24/7 Forever
Lori repeatedly emphasized that entrepreneurs do not get weekends off.
- They do not really take vacations.
- They never fully check out.
- They have to remain at the helm.
- Their eyes and hands should be on everything.
I completely understand how that philosophy contributed to her success. Especially in the beginning.
Nobody cares about your early business quite like you do.
There are moments when building something absolutely requires unreasonable effort.
- The launch is tomorrow.
- The product is wrong.
- The shipment is late.
- Cash is tight.
- You are doing jobs that five people may eventually do because those five people do not exist yet.
I do not believe entrepreneurship is always balanced.
But I also do not believe permanent 24/7 founder dependence should be the goal.
If a business can only function while the founder personally watches everything every minute, the founder may have created a very demanding job rather than a scalable organization.
At some point, leadership has to evolve.
- 01I personally do everything.
- 02I understand everything important.
- 03I have built systems that make quality repeatable.
- 04I have hired people I trust to own outcomes.
- 05I know where my attention creates the most value.
That does not mean becoming disconnected.
A great founder should understand the economics, customers, culture, strategy, quality, and major risks of her company.
But knowing every important part of the business is different from personally touching every part forever.
The goal should be to build a company that benefits tremendously from you without requiring every waking hour of you.
Otherwise, what exactly are we building wealth for?
Meticulousness Is a Competitive Advantage
There was another Lori quality that came through again and again. She is meticulous.
If something is slightly wrong, she fixes it.
- She prepares.
- Checks.
- Rehearses.
- Looks again.
She does not treat small details as somebody else's responsibility when those details affect the result.
There is an interesting tension here.
Entrepreneurs are constantly told: done is better than perfect. Ship fast. Do not overthink it.
And I agree. Perfectionism can become procrastination wearing expensive clothes.
But Lori reminded me of the opposite problem.
Sometimes we are using done is better than perfect as permission to be sloppy.
- The deck has spelling mistakes.
- The website does not work properly.
- Nobody tested checkout.
- The packaging looks cheap.
- The numbers in the presentation do not reconcile.
- The salesperson cannot explain the offer.
- The founder arrives late.
- The demo fails because nobody tested it enough.
Details communicate standards.
The key is knowing which details matter.
Do not spend six months choosing between two nearly identical shades of beige.
But if you have eight minutes on television with $300,000 at risk? Check everything.
Patents: Useful, but Not Automatically the Answer to Everything
Lori strongly believes in patents.
That makes complete sense given the type of businesses she has built: physical consumer products where a design, mechanism, or functional invention may be protectable.
Her view is straightforward. If someone copies your idea, you want something that gives you the ability to fight back.
The larger lesson I took from Lori is not simply get a patent. It is:
Understand what makes your advantage defendable before someone else notices the opportunity too.
Due Diligence Still Matters After the Handshake
I also appreciated hearing Lori explain what happens after a Shark Tank deal.
The television handshake is not necessarily the final transaction.
Then comes due diligence. The investors examine the business, the financials, the claims, the numbers, the reality.
- Sometimes the deal closes exactly as discussed.
- Sometimes the terms change.
- Sometimes it never closes.
That is a useful reminder because television naturally celebrates the moment of agreement. Business happens afterward.
- A signed term sheet is not the business.
- A verbal commitment is not the money.
- A potential partnership is not a partnership.
- An exciting meeting is not revenue.
The boring part still matters.
- Verification.
- Contracts.
- Financials.
- Legal review.
- References.
- Margins.
- Unit economics.
- Obligations.
- Liabilities.
- Reality.
Excitement should open the door.
Due diligence decides whether we walk through it.
If Everything Disappeared Tomorrow
Near the end, Lori was asked one of my favorite questions.
If everything she had built disappeared today, what would she do?
She did not pretend she would be thrilled. She said she would not be happy.
I appreciated that.
Then she said she would be okay.
- She would figure out what people need now.
- She would look for another opportunity.
- She would take whatever job she needed to take.
- She would rebuild her independence.
She knows she could do it again because she has already learned how to create.
That may be a more valuable form of wealth than any individual product.
Imagine two people.
One has $10 million but no idea how it was created, no confidence she could reproduce it, and no ability to earn independently if it disappeared.
The other has capital too, but she also has the skills, judgment, relationships, confidence, experience, and problem-solving ability to create again.
Both are wealthy.
But the second person owns something the market cannot easily take away.
Capability.
- Money can disappear.
- Companies can fail.
- Industries can change.
- Markets can crash.
- Businesses can become obsolete.
But if I still know how to solve problems, communicate value, build relationships, sell, learn, lead, and execute, I am not starting from zero. I am starting with experience.
Maybe That Is What You Are the Business Really Means
The fireside chat ended on an interesting idea.
If everything falls apart, you do not have to fall apart with it.
- Because before the company came the woman capable of creating the company.
- Before the product came the person capable of noticing the problem.
- Before the revenue came the person willing to make the call.
- Before the recognition came the person willing to hear no.
That does not mean our identity should become completely attached to our business. I actually think the opposite is healthier.
I am not my business.
My business can fail without making me a failure.
But I carry the skills that allowed me to build it.
That is different. And incredibly powerful.
What I'm Taking From Lori Greiner's Presentation
- 01Look for problems before looking for billion-dollar ideas. Ordinary frustrations can create extraordinary businesses.
- 02Do not confuse an idea with a business. The distance between the two is execution.
- 03Move quickly enough to start learning from the market. Thinking cannot replace customer feedback.
- 04One rejection is not the entire market. Learn from the no, then decide whether to improve or find another door.
- 05Your idea does not have to be revolutionary. Better can be enough.
- 06Know why your product deserves to exist. Does it solve a problem, stand apart, reach enough people, hit the right price, fill a gap, and make immediate sense?
- 07Make the value easy to understand. Clarity is part of the product.
- 08Know your three strongest selling points. If everything is important, nothing is.
- 09Preparation is one of the most reliable forms of confidence.
- 10Hire for character without ignoring competence. The strongest teams give you both.
- 11Work beside people and treat them well. Culture is often built in moments the employee handbook never sees.
- 12Speak up quickly when a professional relationship is wrong.
- 13Do not internalize somebody else's decision to underestimate you.
- 14Kindness and power can coexist. Boundaries do not require cruelty.
- 15Build a can-do culture, but do not confuse optimism with blindly saying yes.
- 16Be meticulous about the details that affect the outcome.
- 17Protect what makes the business defensible.
- 18Do the due diligence after the excitement.
- 19Work extraordinarily hard when the moment requires it, but eventually build systems and people so the company can scale beyond your constant intervention.
- 20Build capability alongside wealth. Money is powerful. Knowing you can create again is another kind of security entirely.
One Idea Can Change Your Life
Shelby's presentation made me think about selling.
Jasmine's made me think about becoming.
Lori's made me think about building.
And maybe that is why I enjoyed hearing these presentations back to back.
Because entrepreneurship requires all three.
You have to believe something is possible before it exists.
You have to persuade yourself and eventually other people to believe in it too.
And then somebody has to wake up the next morning and actually build the thing.
- Find the manufacturer.
- Call the buyer.
- Run the numbers.
- Practice the pitch.
- Fix the packaging.
- Hire the team.
- Protect the idea.
- Hear no.
- Call someone else.
- Get better.
- Try again.
The idea may arrive like a thunderbolt on a massage table.
Everything after that is work.
And perhaps that is what I appreciated most about Lori Greiner.
Her story is inspiring, but it is not mysterious.
- There was no secret business-school formula.
- No perfect credentials.
- No guaranteed yes.
She noticed something. She believed she could make it better. Then she started figuring things out.
- One problem at a time.
- One call at a time.
- One rejection at a time.
- One product at a time.
Until one idea became an entirely different life.
This Is Part Three
This is Part Three of my Women & Wealth conference series.
I am going speaker by speaker through the presentations, not just to summarize what was said, but to process what I actually learned, challenge the ideas where I think more nuance is needed, and decide what deserves to come home with me.
Because inspiration still is not the return. Implementation is.
And Lori Greiner may have given us the simplest implementation question of the conference:
What problem can I solve, and what am I going to do about it?
Topics
- Women & Wealth
- Entrepreneurship
- Products
- Execution
- Lori Greiner
Naihomy Navarro
Faith. Discipline. Elevation.
I write from Santo Domingo about building with intention: business, wealth, identity, and the decisions that hold everything else up.
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